Monday, January 18, 2010

January's Mullet of the Month


Maybe the "Storm in the Heartland" explains the hair.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Hello All, Here's Some Updates :)

Greg is so great at taking pictures. I really think that this is the PRETTIEST sunset picture I've ever seen.

This is Hon-Hon on our little walk. We took a walk almost every morning before the sun came up. Kinda ambitious to be up by 6:30am on vaction, if I may say so. This is actually what I miss most about the trip (beside family).


Nicole, Wes, Tessa and Kate. They are so great with Kate. I've already learned so many great things from Wes and Nicole about parenting. Cute Tessa is almost exactly 2 years older than Kate. They're going to be best friends! Callie wasn't in the picture, but she is also going to be best buds with Kate. She was very good at holding Kate.

A Kate sandwich! Warm sun...I miss you.

Wes and Cole at the golf course. We all had such a great time golfing. Am I good at golfing? I'll tell you how good I was. My newphew, 8 years old, had only golfed twice. HE beat ME by one stroke! ha! (In his defense, he had some great shots! I was very impressed! ) He rode in my cart. At one point, I asked him to drive the cart to the green. He was like "uh, I don't thin I can". I thought, it can't be too hard. Wes looked at me and thought I was a little crazy. Cole said, "I'm only eight". I guess sometimes I forget how old he is! So Wes comprimised and told Cole he could press the pedal for the rest of the day. He was very good and careful. By the way, don't you think golf carts are hilarious!? Someone in our party always seems to skid, bobble from side to side, or fall out. I always ended up crying from laughing so hard. Wes and I used to rearend each other. For your information, it hurts worse than you'd think.
Such loving Grandparents.

Like I already mentioned...Greg is an incredible photographer.

Here's our little hula girl. She's growing so quickly!
This is Cole and Dad.
Blue Eyed Girl!
Greg loves Kate. He is smitten!
We spent Christmas break with my (Abbey's) side of the family. We had such a great time being with family all of the time. It was also incredible to get to be somewhere warm while it was snowing at home. That really makes you appreciate it! Melekelikimaka!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Little Love


How sweet :)

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Lil' Homey

I placed her in her swing and she fell asleep for awhile. The next time I checked on her, I saw that her head band had done this! So funny!


A little later... Hilarious! :)

November's Mullet of the Month

Beautiful

Friday, November 6, 2009

Little Giraffe

It was so fun to see Kate in her giraffe costume! :) It was especially funny when I nursed her, b/c her face was mostly hidden, so I really felt like I was nursing a little baby animal! :) Since the first week, I actually have felt much like a mother cat, nursing her kittens! Having her in this costume just confirmed that! She actually loved the costume. She was cozy and warm all day.

Notice the tail :)
It's a tough job to be a newborn.
I took Kate on her first walk a couple of weeks ago. How sweet
My mom with Kate. How great to have her in our home at last! She was at the hospital for Kate's big day but, was sick for the following 3 weeks. I really missed having her with us. I haven't mentioned it, but some of you probably already know; she was diagnosed with breast cancer this past June; then had it removed at the end of July. The surgery went really well and they believe they removed all of it. She completed her 6th and final week of radiation a few days after Kate was born. The last few sessions were extra powerful, so they made her feel yucky. That's why she wasn't able to see us for 3 weeks. She's feeling much better now. Hip hip hooray! We are SOOOO eternally grateful for them finding it in a routine mammogram. And that it was so small. The Dr.s were excellent. Before her surgery, she received a blessing and I know that it was because of Heavenly Father, that this all went so well. He can do all things and we know that His hand was guiding every step of this. We are also very grateful for everyone's prayers and fasting. It really blessed all of us. I did not have the best attitude while she was going through these things. I tried to, but I just didn't. But now that it's over (hopefully it's all in the past now) I feel very grateful that it was able to be taken care of so quickly and that she is doing so well now. But I also know that no matter the outcome of the trials we all face, Heavenly Father LOVES us and listens to each one of our prayers. We are not left alone.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

How could I forget?! October's Mullet of the Month


This is called the "Femullet". A woman sporting a mullet is a really beautiful thing.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Hooray for Kate!

Great news! She slept a 3 1/2 hour stretch, ate in record time, then slept another 3 hour stretch! Hooray! I woke up today and felt like myself again! I needed that sleep! :) It's really so exciting!!! Thanks, everyone for your input. We have basically tried all of them. Hopefully we have found what she likes :)

Sunday, October 18, 2009

This is why Heber, Utah is #1 in health and fitness


This is seriously the gym/tanning salon on Heber, Utah Main Street. We get such a kick outa this!

Monday, October 12, 2009

Fall Family Pics :)



Greg's mom, "Muz" came for a week to help out. We really appreciate all of her help! She's a great mom and a wonderful grandmother. :)




Dear Everyone Who Shared Advice,

Thank you so much for really thinking about my questions and giving great advice :) I really appreciate it. We are still trying different things, and are optomistic that we will soon sleep more :) I really DO appreciate you responding. If you think of anything else, please don't hesitate.

Take Care,

Abbs

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Who says a brand new baby can't smile?


Hilarious! I love this smile!!!!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Question?

How do you get your baby to sleep less during the day and more at night? Do you think it's okay to have the baby sleep on or beside you if they just can't get to sleep in their crib/bassinet?

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Labor and Delivery Day

The story of labor...
I started having contractions on Sunday morning (the 27th) at 4am. I had them every 10 minutes for 3 hours. They weren't bad, just knew I was having them. I got SOOO excited! :) I woke Greg up and we headed to the hospital. I was nervous and excited, hopeful that this was it :) We got to the hospital and they checked to see how far into labor I was. I was hardly dilated. I was disappointed. But they noticed my blood pressure had gone way up. Like 156/100. This really worried them. They called it preclampsia (or pregnancy induced hypertension/toxemia). It really surprised us, b/c I had just been checked the previous Monday, and my blood pressure was pretty normal. I actually didn't really have any abnormal blood pressure tests throughout my whole pregnancy. I also wasn't swollen, which would be typical of toxemia.

So, the Doc ordered that I go home and be on total bed rest until the baby was due. I was grateful I didn't have months left when they prescribed this. But still disappointed to not be having our little one that day. They told me to get a blood pressure cuff and test at home throughout the day. They said if my pressure got up to 150/100 for a half hour, to come back. Well, it hit that by that evening, and back we went to the hospital. They checked me out again, still hadn't dilated more. The nurse called my Dr. and she told the nurse to go ahead and induce me. When the nurse told me the news, I felt so relieved and SO excited! Relieved, b/c I knew that it wasn't good for the baby if my blood pressure was that high, excited b/c we would get to see our little one in about 24 hours! Wow.

So I called my parents at around 11pm Sunday night, and they drove down from their home and stayed at our house. Greg stayed with me at the hospital.

I did not want them to use petosin (spelling?) so I was very happy when they mentioned that they had a pill that was crushed up that they could put into me and it would gradually get things moving along. They put me on magnesium, (to lower my blood pressure) which made me sick. I didn't like that part very much, but it seemed to level out after about 45 minutes...I was very grateful. After about 6 hours, my water broke on its own. Then the contractions started getting really strong. I was surprised at how quickly that happened. Once it broke I dialed like 3 cm in an hour. While this was happening, I decided to get the epidural, which really wasn't bad. It stung when they numbed me, and I felt some pressure, but it really wasn't bad. The anestisiologist was awesome, b/c he went through everything he was doing with great detail, so I would know exactly what to expect. I ended up telling him I loved him, b/c I was so happy that I wouldn't need to feel the contractions any more.

My nurses was SO great. They were very sweet and cared so much about the baby's health. They noticed that the baby's heart rate would drop after each contraction, so they were hopeful that the epidural would lower my blood pressure. It did, but too much, so they had to give me something to raise it. This was kinda the goal during my labor. To find the fine balance with her heart rate and my blood pressure. That's why they put me on oxygen, b/c she needed more. So, b/c of these factors, I was very worried throughout.

I wanted more pain medicine, b/c I guess I was feeling contractions (I can't really remember why I asked for more) so they gave me a "re dose". Well, that one was a doosie! I DID NOT like it. It made me SO numb, I felt paralyzed, (numb from my chest down). I felt so lethargic and wanted to get some feeling back. At around 10 am, they told me to relax for an hour and let the baby naturally make it's way down the canal. At 11:10, they said I could start to push. I was soooo excited! So, 11:10am came (a really long hour between 10 and 11 b/c I was so excited). I had this idea that I would push for about 15 minutes and she would just come right out...boy, that wasn't quite accurate. :) haha After about an hour my epidural stared to wear off, and I had control over my legs. I was lifting them up, bending them, and resting them between contractions. They were surprised to see me moving so much. I kept pumping my epidural button, but it didn't seem to help. I could feel the contractions coming and they were quite strong. The Dr. came in to check our progress, and then said she's be back in about an hour. That was disappointing. So we kept pushing, Greg fanning me with the hospital folder and giving me "tiger's blood" flavored ice chips (which were actually really good). He was so attentive and selfless through the whole process. Very encouraging during the pushing part too. He told me I was doing a great job. But we weren't making a whole lot of progress, unfortunately. Then they added the petosin b/c my contrations were so far apart. The magnesium is a relaxer, the petosin is a muscle contractor. They had both in the i.v.

Well, the Dr. came after I had pushed 2 1/2 hours but little Kate was just stuck. So, the Dr. said she thought that the forceps would be necessary. I was fine with that, b/c I had seen a video of a birth when the Dr. used it, and it worked out just fine. We were coming on 3 hours, and after that, they start to really worry about the baby's health b/c of all the stress that puts on her. So, forceps it was, and holy-uncomfortable/ painful it became! But she was worth every second of it, or corse. But, lo and behold... after 3 hours of pushing, little Kate Phillips came and it was unbelievable! 2:27pm. I was SOOOO grateful she made it out okay and that we both got through that with out major problems. They placed her on me right away, which I loved. I got to feed her within a half hour. Greg and I spend that time alone with Kate, no nurses or anyone. Then my parents came back in the room and they got to hold her. Then Greg went with her to the nursery and they did all the tests and gave her a bath. I met up with my parents and Greg and Kate in a new room. And that was the wonderful, surprising, amazing experience.



Kate in her new swing. Me and a friend set it up yesterday. She seems to really like it.
They gave us this beanie in the hospital. We love it. It kinda makes her look like Santa's lil' helper. :)

What a cute little one. Seeing me with her really shows how tiny a newborn is :)

Monday, October 5, 2009

Kathryn (Kate)

Kathryn (Kate)

September 28th, 2009

Born at 2:27 pm

7 lbs. 9 oz.

19 inches




Havin' a riot during labor :)
These were some big contrations. I got an epideral about an hour after my water broke. I hadn't decided on getting an epideral until then. I decided there was no logical reason to feel contractions any more intense than that... but little did I know that my epideral would actually wear off during the last part of labor :) I ended up telling them I was about to have one, then they'd look on the screen and say "yep, you're good". I thought "I am worried about my epideral not working for the final moments!" So, I guess you could say I did the beginning and ending without an epideral. But it was so worth it, of corse! :)Here is Kate's first beanie and diaper. So small.
How excited we were to have this little one 9 days early, because she's such a doll. She's such a joy to have around. Poor thing had a tough labor but she is a strong little thing. She's tough.
Here's my mom holding the little one. My parents were there during most of the labor, except during the pushing portion. I love my parents but I don't feel that cumfy around them :)Grandpa admiring his new granddaughter.


Her in her little bassinette. We love this darned thing. We push it all around the house. It's like her own personal limo service.
She's winking at us
So funny! I love this look!
Daddy gettin' close
Kate's sayin' after a week of non-stop picture taking, "Mom and Dad, enough is enough."
We are so thankful to have this sweet one. She is so sweet and calm. She only gets worked up when she's hungry or needs to burp. The whole last week has been quite a ride. Very emotional and tiring but wonderful.

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